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<blockquote data-quote="Rotsne" data-source="post: 225200" data-attributes="member: 6326"><p>What I read is a child who have been allowed to decide too much too soon. It is not your mothers fault. She had a lot to deal with, but done is done.</p><p> </p><p>Being a parent myself and having to deal with illness among us adults I know how easy to let things slip. We had to involve a family coach from the cityhall so an outsider could help us to point out where he could set up boundaries for our children and what to allow.</p><p> </p><p>I have to ask if other family members could be of help here, because if your mom is under a heavy burden she maybe should let others take over for a while. A boarding school is not the answer. Not even those who are lockdowns. Because while she seems rude you have to understand that it is a shell she is using to protect herself. She is hurting inside and both you and your mother are too close to you so you can expect her to open herself for you. It needs an older member of your family or a professional who is ready to sit down with her a listen.</p><p> </p><p>While she according to your own words are bright, education should not be your first priority here. She has a heavy backbag with emontional stuff she needs to load off at someone before she can continue in any environment. She is at a point in her life where she just have to unload before she can continue doing anything.</p><p> </p><p>Please remain here on the boards and ignore angry pm's. It is good to see that your sister has someone beside your mom who cares for her. I give you my full support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rotsne, post: 225200, member: 6326"] What I read is a child who have been allowed to decide too much too soon. It is not your mothers fault. She had a lot to deal with, but done is done. Being a parent myself and having to deal with illness among us adults I know how easy to let things slip. We had to involve a family coach from the cityhall so an outsider could help us to point out where he could set up boundaries for our children and what to allow. I have to ask if other family members could be of help here, because if your mom is under a heavy burden she maybe should let others take over for a while. A boarding school is not the answer. Not even those who are lockdowns. Because while she seems rude you have to understand that it is a shell she is using to protect herself. She is hurting inside and both you and your mother are too close to you so you can expect her to open herself for you. It needs an older member of your family or a professional who is ready to sit down with her a listen. While she according to your own words are bright, education should not be your first priority here. She has a heavy backbag with emontional stuff she needs to load off at someone before she can continue in any environment. She is at a point in her life where she just have to unload before she can continue doing anything. Please remain here on the boards and ignore angry pm's. It is good to see that your sister has someone beside your mom who cares for her. I give you my full support. [/QUOTE]
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