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What do you do when you put adult son in rehab with their bills?
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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 728535" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Hi TTBS,</p><p></p><p>Welcome to the forum.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like you may be a co-signer on your son’s lease. If so, you are probably want to protect your credit.</p><p></p><p>Most apartments allow the tenants to break the lease by paying two months rent. The laws probably vary by state, so I would check to see what it is in the state where he resides. You could also clandestinely make a call to the apartment complex and ask them about their policy.</p><p></p><p>If you aren’t on the lease, I wouldn’t worry about it.</p><p></p><p>Someone will have to clean out the apartment or pay a moving company to do it. If he doesn’t have much of value, maybe he would consider donating what he doesn’t need, especially if he is in a long-term program, to save on storage. </p><p></p><p>I would make sure the utilities, cable, internet, etc. is turned off. This all an be done after he is in the hospital or rehab and stabilized.</p><p></p><p>Your son would need to find out what kind of benefits he is entitled to from his company’s HR department. You can inform them if need be. He may be cover by FMLA. The job may or may not be there when he comes back. Right now, his recovery is more important.</p><p></p><p>I wouldn’t worry about your son’s credit card bills. I’m sure he isn’t the only person in rehab who has bills to pay every month. If he has money, I’m sure he will either pay them himself or give someone access to his account. If he doesn’t have any money, they won’t get paid for a while. He won’t be the first person this has happened to. It isn’t the worst thing in the world.</p><p></p><p>I would want to have as much information as possible, if it were me. It will make things less scary if you know what is ahead. </p><p></p><p>Keep us informed on the situation. </p><p></p><p>Apple</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 728535, member: 16024"] Hi TTBS, Welcome to the forum. It sounds like you may be a co-signer on your son’s lease. If so, you are probably want to protect your credit. Most apartments allow the tenants to break the lease by paying two months rent. The laws probably vary by state, so I would check to see what it is in the state where he resides. You could also clandestinely make a call to the apartment complex and ask them about their policy. If you aren’t on the lease, I wouldn’t worry about it. Someone will have to clean out the apartment or pay a moving company to do it. If he doesn’t have much of value, maybe he would consider donating what he doesn’t need, especially if he is in a long-term program, to save on storage. I would make sure the utilities, cable, internet, etc. is turned off. This all an be done after he is in the hospital or rehab and stabilized. Your son would need to find out what kind of benefits he is entitled to from his company’s HR department. You can inform them if need be. He may be cover by FMLA. The job may or may not be there when he comes back. Right now, his recovery is more important. I wouldn’t worry about your son’s credit card bills. I’m sure he isn’t the only person in rehab who has bills to pay every month. If he has money, I’m sure he will either pay them himself or give someone access to his account. If he doesn’t have any money, they won’t get paid for a while. He won’t be the first person this has happened to. It isn’t the worst thing in the world. I would want to have as much information as possible, if it were me. It will make things less scary if you know what is ahead. Keep us informed on the situation. Apple [/QUOTE]
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