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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 286884" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I would tell your daughter that you have serious concerns about her and her relationship, and leave it at that. Anytime she cries to yu or bring it up, reiterate the statement, or say "you know how I feel, but I'll keep it to myself". If she wants to hear them, she'll ask. If she doesn't, she won't. </p><p> </p><p>I don't condone boyfriend hitting her. But I also don't condone her provoking him. And from what you've described, that exactly what she did. Two wrongs don't make a right, by any means, but she wanted a scene, and she got it. My apologies for feeling that way, but, it honest. Again, I don't condone either one of them.</p><p> </p><p>I wonder if you <em>might</em> be able to talk to the boyfriend? If I were going to attempt to talk some sense into either one of them, it might be him. If he sees she's just around to "claim" his "stuff" that he obviously doesn't want to share, maybe he'd be more inclined to stop sharing.</p><p> </p><p>Its tough, Witz. But that's my take and what I think I'd do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 286884, member: 1848"] I would tell your daughter that you have serious concerns about her and her relationship, and leave it at that. Anytime she cries to yu or bring it up, reiterate the statement, or say "you know how I feel, but I'll keep it to myself". If she wants to hear them, she'll ask. If she doesn't, she won't. I don't condone boyfriend hitting her. But I also don't condone her provoking him. And from what you've described, that exactly what she did. Two wrongs don't make a right, by any means, but she wanted a scene, and she got it. My apologies for feeling that way, but, it honest. Again, I don't condone either one of them. I wonder if you [I]might[/I] be able to talk to the boyfriend? If I were going to attempt to talk some sense into either one of them, it might be him. If he sees she's just around to "claim" his "stuff" that he obviously doesn't want to share, maybe he'd be more inclined to stop sharing. Its tough, Witz. But that's my take and what I think I'd do. [/QUOTE]
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