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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 286944" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I'm betting witz made it clear to L that boyfriend's hitting her was unacceptable behavior. And she did say she'd turn him in for it if there was a 2nd time.</p><p> </p><p>That is not contributing to L staying in an abusive relationship. That, as a mother, is about all she can really do. L is an adult making her own decisions.</p><p> </p><p>It's frustrating as hades. I know cuz I live it daily with Nichole. Nichole has read the literature. She knows where the domestic violence shelter is. She knows how boyfriend treats her is wrong. And believe me she knows I don't condone it. boyfriend still isn't allowed past my front door.</p><p> </p><p>All I can do is when she asks me is to point out to her his behavior is abusive and she doesn't deserve to be treated that way, nor should Aubrey be exposed to it. She's beginning to listen. So I pray that she'll make the break soon. </p><p> </p><p>Now the last time boyfriend got physical with Nichole I came mighty close to beating the snot out of him. The only thing that stopped me was Aubrey. I'm vicious when my temper is triggered and literally see red. Plus the coward ran from me.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /></p><p> </p><p>When Aubrey told me Daddy hit Mommy I had Nichole denying it and she had nor marks to go by. Or I'd have been over there kicking his arse and husband would've been bailing me out of jail. The jerk would've had a swift lesson in what a strong woman doesn't put up with.</p><p> </p><p>But in hindsight......I dunno. I will say when I came so close to kicking his arse the first time it got Nichole's attention. When I refused to allow him in my home as long as he is unable to treat my daughter with respect, it got her attention.</p><p> </p><p>Yet, still.......she's with him. Planning on moving in with him. And lord........I'm sure I'll be burning up the board posting if he actually does move in with her.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p><p> </p><p>My point is.........a victim will be a victim until they reach the point where they are fed up with the behavior. It's sort of like drugs in a way. At some point she has to realize she doesn't deserve to be treated like dung on his shoe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 286944, member: 84"] I'm betting witz made it clear to L that boyfriend's hitting her was unacceptable behavior. And she did say she'd turn him in for it if there was a 2nd time. That is not contributing to L staying in an abusive relationship. That, as a mother, is about all she can really do. L is an adult making her own decisions. It's frustrating as hades. I know cuz I live it daily with Nichole. Nichole has read the literature. She knows where the domestic violence shelter is. She knows how boyfriend treats her is wrong. And believe me she knows I don't condone it. boyfriend still isn't allowed past my front door. All I can do is when she asks me is to point out to her his behavior is abusive and she doesn't deserve to be treated that way, nor should Aubrey be exposed to it. She's beginning to listen. So I pray that she'll make the break soon. Now the last time boyfriend got physical with Nichole I came mighty close to beating the snot out of him. The only thing that stopped me was Aubrey. I'm vicious when my temper is triggered and literally see red. Plus the coward ran from me.:angry: When Aubrey told me Daddy hit Mommy I had Nichole denying it and she had nor marks to go by. Or I'd have been over there kicking his arse and husband would've been bailing me out of jail. The jerk would've had a swift lesson in what a strong woman doesn't put up with. But in hindsight......I dunno. I will say when I came so close to kicking his arse the first time it got Nichole's attention. When I refused to allow him in my home as long as he is unable to treat my daughter with respect, it got her attention. Yet, still.......she's with him. Planning on moving in with him. And lord........I'm sure I'll be burning up the board posting if he actually does move in with her.:knockedout: My point is.........a victim will be a victim until they reach the point where they are fed up with the behavior. It's sort of like drugs in a way. At some point she has to realize she doesn't deserve to be treated like dung on his shoe. [/QUOTE]
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