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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 574119" data-attributes="member: 15799"><p>You've gotten some great advice. Counseling was wonderful for both my boys when they were abused by someone. They were only 3 1/2 and it was play therapy but it helped them feel safe and helped me work with them on the resulting issues. Make sure it's someone that is experienced with abused kids.</p><p></p><p>As for the lawyer, absolutely ASAP if easy child is husband's bioson. Do you have any documentation (psychiatrist reports, police reports, CPS reports, pictures, video, anything at all)?</p><p></p><p>I still have talks with difficult child 2 about difficult child 1. In the beginning, he knew that difficult child 1 was "sick" and couldn't help what he was doing and that's why we went to the doctor all the time to find the right medication to help make difficult child 1 better. Now that they're older, it's to coach difficult child 2 on how to handle certain situations with difficult child 1 without giving in. </p><p></p><p>You're priority is to explain that difficult child isn't a "bad guy" because bad guys choose to be bad. difficult child isn't choosing to be. He needs help and your job is to make sure that easy child is safe. That's what mommies do. They protect their kids from people that are not nice to them, no matter who those people are. He needs to know that he can trust YOU.</p><p></p><p>{{{{HUGS}}}} to you. I'm glad you feel better and I really hope and pray that husband doesn't cause further problems and you are able to follow through with your plans.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 574119, member: 15799"] You've gotten some great advice. Counseling was wonderful for both my boys when they were abused by someone. They were only 3 1/2 and it was play therapy but it helped them feel safe and helped me work with them on the resulting issues. Make sure it's someone that is experienced with abused kids. As for the lawyer, absolutely ASAP if easy child is husband's bioson. Do you have any documentation (psychiatrist reports, police reports, CPS reports, pictures, video, anything at all)? I still have talks with difficult child 2 about difficult child 1. In the beginning, he knew that difficult child 1 was "sick" and couldn't help what he was doing and that's why we went to the doctor all the time to find the right medication to help make difficult child 1 better. Now that they're older, it's to coach difficult child 2 on how to handle certain situations with difficult child 1 without giving in. You're priority is to explain that difficult child isn't a "bad guy" because bad guys choose to be bad. difficult child isn't choosing to be. He needs help and your job is to make sure that easy child is safe. That's what mommies do. They protect their kids from people that are not nice to them, no matter who those people are. He needs to know that he can trust YOU. {{{{HUGS}}}} to you. I'm glad you feel better and I really hope and pray that husband doesn't cause further problems and you are able to follow through with your plans. [/QUOTE]
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