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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 343254" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Wendy, to play Devil's Advocate, I would select a different day. It's a noble thought to take the day from the terrorists but it's difficult for most of us humans and you don't have any way of knowing how it would be perceived by guests---victory? insensitivity to their pain? disrespectful to those who died and should be acknowledged on that day? </p><p> </p><p>At work we don't schedule anything for that day- meetings or anything else- because it might conflict with personal memorials. We have the memorial at Shanksville, PA that is a very big deal and many from around the state attend. Since you live in NY I would be very surprised if you didn't have similar ceremonies and similar conflicts.</p><p> </p><p>I would suggest that you select a day that will be known to you and your fiance and friends as "your" anniversary.............not the anniversary of anything else, especially something so devastating to the nation.</p><p> </p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 343254, member: 29"] Wendy, to play Devil's Advocate, I would select a different day. It's a noble thought to take the day from the terrorists but it's difficult for most of us humans and you don't have any way of knowing how it would be perceived by guests---victory? insensitivity to their pain? disrespectful to those who died and should be acknowledged on that day? At work we don't schedule anything for that day- meetings or anything else- because it might conflict with personal memorials. We have the memorial at Shanksville, PA that is a very big deal and many from around the state attend. Since you live in NY I would be very surprised if you didn't have similar ceremonies and similar conflicts. I would suggest that you select a day that will be known to you and your fiance and friends as "your" anniversary.............not the anniversary of anything else, especially something so devastating to the nation. Suz [/QUOTE]
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