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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 421569" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I've not yet asked why M is not being mentioned. Although I know sooner or later my curiosity will get the better of me and I'll ask. lol </p><p></p><p>Possible she's told them not to mention him at all........but you'd have to know both Alex and Evan to know there is no way for that to work. Kayla could manage it. But no way with the boys. Stuff comes pouring out of their mouths all the time. Which is why Alex's teacher knows everything about what is going on. (I asked her about it at the award ceremony) She is the reason I'm not too worried about what is currently going on in the household......as Alex blabs everything with no thought as to what he's saying ect and his teacher would call cps in a heartbeat if she thought it was needed. </p><p></p><p>The boys are both like very young toddlers. If you told them not to say something.......they'd go tell the very person you told not to say it to and add mommy said not to tell. lol </p><p></p><p>I don't know what katie's plans are concerning M. I doubt seriously the apartments will bend the rules and let him in with the felony as it's a HUD rule, not just theirs. Katie got thrown out from the same complex 10 yrs ago for trying to sneak him in.......she knows if she tries she'll be found out and reported. This time it doesn't seem to phase her a bit he's not there. I've never seen her so happy. I've never seen her so socially engaging. I've never seen her so actively looking for parenting guidance ect. She was even watching us cook......taking note of everything we did. She was thrilled when Nichole invited her to the girl's makeover day before the wedding reception. And I noticed yesterday that she is no longer standing in the "victim" don't notice me posture. I've not seen her acting this way since she was a kid. Seriously. It's like she suddenly turned back into the old katie I knew and loved. </p><p></p><p>And I don't know what to think about that either. She didn't do that the last time she was here. Last time.........she was an empty shell. No social engagement, even with the kids. No desire to learn.....unless given no choice. Nothing. She was so totally not herself back then that I didn't know what to make of it. She behaved the same way around M pretty much now too. </p><p></p><p>I'm getting a teeny glimmer of hope. But I'm too leery of letting it develop into anything. She's been with M too long. And I know due to her non confrontational issues, it might not take much for him to mess up any progress that is made. It will depend on if and how much she wants him out of her life.</p><p></p><p>I'm leery of even approaching that subject with her for fear of jinxing it.</p><p></p><p>As for M........katie has been his free ride for too long. I'm having real trouble he's going to leave the picture without a fight. It's just not his style. While I do think if he is finally made to see the free ride is over that he will move on to his next victim.......there will be a rough road ahead before that would happen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 421569, member: 84"] I've not yet asked why M is not being mentioned. Although I know sooner or later my curiosity will get the better of me and I'll ask. lol Possible she's told them not to mention him at all........but you'd have to know both Alex and Evan to know there is no way for that to work. Kayla could manage it. But no way with the boys. Stuff comes pouring out of their mouths all the time. Which is why Alex's teacher knows everything about what is going on. (I asked her about it at the award ceremony) She is the reason I'm not too worried about what is currently going on in the household......as Alex blabs everything with no thought as to what he's saying ect and his teacher would call cps in a heartbeat if she thought it was needed. The boys are both like very young toddlers. If you told them not to say something.......they'd go tell the very person you told not to say it to and add mommy said not to tell. lol I don't know what katie's plans are concerning M. I doubt seriously the apartments will bend the rules and let him in with the felony as it's a HUD rule, not just theirs. Katie got thrown out from the same complex 10 yrs ago for trying to sneak him in.......she knows if she tries she'll be found out and reported. This time it doesn't seem to phase her a bit he's not there. I've never seen her so happy. I've never seen her so socially engaging. I've never seen her so actively looking for parenting guidance ect. She was even watching us cook......taking note of everything we did. She was thrilled when Nichole invited her to the girl's makeover day before the wedding reception. And I noticed yesterday that she is no longer standing in the "victim" don't notice me posture. I've not seen her acting this way since she was a kid. Seriously. It's like she suddenly turned back into the old katie I knew and loved. And I don't know what to think about that either. She didn't do that the last time she was here. Last time.........she was an empty shell. No social engagement, even with the kids. No desire to learn.....unless given no choice. Nothing. She was so totally not herself back then that I didn't know what to make of it. She behaved the same way around M pretty much now too. I'm getting a teeny glimmer of hope. But I'm too leery of letting it develop into anything. She's been with M too long. And I know due to her non confrontational issues, it might not take much for him to mess up any progress that is made. It will depend on if and how much she wants him out of her life. I'm leery of even approaching that subject with her for fear of jinxing it. As for M........katie has been his free ride for too long. I'm having real trouble he's going to leave the picture without a fight. It's just not his style. While I do think if he is finally made to see the free ride is over that he will move on to his next victim.......there will be a rough road ahead before that would happen. [/QUOTE]
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