My computer has been on the fritz so I don't think I got to reply to your post. Most of us can't understand why they do what
they do...when they do it! Sometimes I think they have lost all
sense of self-confidence and therefore gravitate to the easiest
environment available. Sometimes I think their spirits have been
so broken that they simply can't think positive thoughts. I also
sometimes think that their difficult child need to feel empowered can only be
demonstrated by making some stupid, show-offish, choices.
Just remember.........you are not alone! DDD