You are doing an outstanding job!
Do you mind if I reiterate just once?? LOL!
Pull out your index card and read to difficult child: "If YOU feel that it
is best, Dad and I will follow your lead. We have confidence
that YOU can make wise decisions." Period.
Honestly....it might very well be the best choice for him AND
it would take alot of pressure off of you all. Hugs. DDD