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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 71205"><p>I am working so hard on the "letting go" part. It has been 4 years since I lost my job of 16 years. The job I loved. My new boss did things to me that were awful. Purposely did these things. You could not even imagine someone doing these things. It had gotten to the point that within 30 minutes of getting to work I would break out in hives. I had to carry an epi pen.</p><p></p><p>I cannot forgive this man for the things he did to me. They were wrong. They were not even legal. (but try to fight a huge nation wide company). Because of that job loss, we suffered through bankrupcy, almost lost our home, the stress put on our family was enormous. I had gotten horribly depressed. Had jobs I didn't like. Had to commute over 100 miles a day. Work shifts where I don't see my family. I am very fortunate to have obtained the position I have with this wonderful company now. But starting over, starting at the bottom, learning all the ropes all over again. Pay is much less starting over. I have struggled for 4 years with so much anger, resentment. I try to tell myself to let go. Move on. I cannot. I truly WANT this man to feel my pain. i truly want this man to go through what I had to go through. I truly want him to pay for what he has done to me and my family. I know that is wrong. I know it is holding me back in so many ways. I lost so much because of this man. I just cannot move beyond this. How do you forgive someone who has caused you so much pain?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 71205"] I am working so hard on the "letting go" part. It has been 4 years since I lost my job of 16 years. The job I loved. My new boss did things to me that were awful. Purposely did these things. You could not even imagine someone doing these things. It had gotten to the point that within 30 minutes of getting to work I would break out in hives. I had to carry an epi pen. I cannot forgive this man for the things he did to me. They were wrong. They were not even legal. (but try to fight a huge nation wide company). Because of that job loss, we suffered through bankrupcy, almost lost our home, the stress put on our family was enormous. I had gotten horribly depressed. Had jobs I didn't like. Had to commute over 100 miles a day. Work shifts where I don't see my family. I am very fortunate to have obtained the position I have with this wonderful company now. But starting over, starting at the bottom, learning all the ropes all over again. Pay is much less starting over. I have struggled for 4 years with so much anger, resentment. I try to tell myself to let go. Move on. I cannot. I truly WANT this man to feel my pain. i truly want this man to go through what I had to go through. I truly want him to pay for what he has done to me and my family. I know that is wrong. I know it is holding me back in so many ways. I lost so much because of this man. I just cannot move beyond this. How do you forgive someone who has caused you so much pain? [/QUOTE]
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