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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 279638" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I think because you have to do so much all of the time number. </p><p></p><p>Your husband can be a difficult child a lot of the time. So when he is feeling better then he can just be who he feels like at the moment. You on the other hand do not get that luxury, or at least can't let yourself ever fall apart. </p><p></p><p>There is husband outside, "I am going to be the fun Dad, grill with the kids", even though he is likely not trying to be anything but a fun Dad. He is probably not trying to make you feel bad or hurt you.</p><p></p><p>But he likely doesn't even see or realize that you still HAVE to do all of the other things, you don't get to relax, you don't get to let yourself just skip a day or not worry about clean up or medications etc....</p><p></p><p>So when you see them outside doing things like this, how could you not feel a little PO'd, feel a little like you just want to goof off and not worry about anything once in awhile?</p><p>If you do go out there all you would think about is all of the stuff you need to do, homework, medications, being the bad guy...</p><p></p><p>So if I were in your position I would likely not want to go outside either.</p><p></p><p>At least this is how I see one possibility. I know when I am over at my In-Laws I feel this was.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you need to have a pact, when he is feeling better he needs to help out more? </p><p>Or will he act like the kids with this? LOL</p><p></p><p>At least the chickies give good love!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 279638, member: 3155"] I think because you have to do so much all of the time number. Your husband can be a difficult child a lot of the time. So when he is feeling better then he can just be who he feels like at the moment. You on the other hand do not get that luxury, or at least can't let yourself ever fall apart. There is husband outside, "I am going to be the fun Dad, grill with the kids", even though he is likely not trying to be anything but a fun Dad. He is probably not trying to make you feel bad or hurt you. But he likely doesn't even see or realize that you still HAVE to do all of the other things, you don't get to relax, you don't get to let yourself just skip a day or not worry about clean up or medications etc.... So when you see them outside doing things like this, how could you not feel a little PO'd, feel a little like you just want to goof off and not worry about anything once in awhile? If you do go out there all you would think about is all of the stuff you need to do, homework, medications, being the bad guy... So if I were in your position I would likely not want to go outside either. At least this is how I see one possibility. I know when I am over at my In-Laws I feel this was. Maybe you need to have a pact, when he is feeling better he needs to help out more? Or will he act like the kids with this? LOL At least the chickies give good love! [/QUOTE]
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