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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 289891" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I've been chatting with different people online since I'm not comfortable going out to meet new people under the circumstances just yet. There is a female "friend" that lives about an hour drive's away and we started out emailing about once a day. Then, she would only email about every 2-3 days, but that was no big deal, I really didn't think anything about it. Then, she emailed that she could come to my area so we could get together and go to an event or do something fun sometime- you know, just hang out. I said ok and asked when was a convenient time. She didn't email back for 4 weeks, then emails today apologogizing if "she forgot to respond to my last email" and saying she'd still like to get together sometime. I responded with a brief "things are about the same" email and didn't say anything about getting together or ask any questions- just mentioned that I was glad things were going well with her. </p><p></p><p>She emailed back asking if I found any upcoming events that we could get together and do. I responded with a link to a website showing an events calendar and told her I just needed a couple of days notice if she wanted to get together. She emailed back saying "well, she's busy with work right now- but she would like to get together" soon. That was it. I just responded "ok" and let it go. This does not seem normal to me for a lady in her 50's. This seems more like someone who has no idea what they are doing. </p><p></p><p>Does this seem odd to others?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 289891, member: 3699"] I've been chatting with different people online since I'm not comfortable going out to meet new people under the circumstances just yet. There is a female "friend" that lives about an hour drive's away and we started out emailing about once a day. Then, she would only email about every 2-3 days, but that was no big deal, I really didn't think anything about it. Then, she emailed that she could come to my area so we could get together and go to an event or do something fun sometime- you know, just hang out. I said ok and asked when was a convenient time. She didn't email back for 4 weeks, then emails today apologogizing if "she forgot to respond to my last email" and saying she'd still like to get together sometime. I responded with a brief "things are about the same" email and didn't say anything about getting together or ask any questions- just mentioned that I was glad things were going well with her. She emailed back asking if I found any upcoming events that we could get together and do. I responded with a link to a website showing an events calendar and told her I just needed a couple of days notice if she wanted to get together. She emailed back saying "well, she's busy with work right now- but she would like to get together" soon. That was it. I just responded "ok" and let it go. This does not seem normal to me for a lady in her 50's. This seems more like someone who has no idea what they are doing. Does this seem odd to others? [/QUOTE]
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