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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 290020" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Marg made some very valid points.</p><p> </p><p>I wouldn't totally ignore her just yet........but I'd pull back and see what happens.</p><p> </p><p>Could be she doesn't know what she wants.........could be a game........could be she's extremely shy and tends to back out at the last second cuz of anxiety. Who knows?</p><p> </p><p>I have to be cautious because mine tend to go the other way where they all but smother me. And it's often much too much, much too fast. Like that lady on farmtown. Who can expect to be (or act like) they're someone's closest bestest friend in under 2 hours?? By the 2nd day she was inviting me to Mexico and talking about coming to the states and seeing me. Uh, no thanks. You may be just a sweet middle aged woman who is lonely cuz her daughter is at college.....but I don't know that, nor does she know I'm nice lil ol' me and not some homicidal manic for Pete's sake! Sheesh 2 days does not a bff friendship make.</p><p> </p><p>I've met people I've "clicked" instantly with, but even those times it still takes time to know the person and develop the friendship.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 290020, member: 84"] Marg made some very valid points. I wouldn't totally ignore her just yet........but I'd pull back and see what happens. Could be she doesn't know what she wants.........could be a game........could be she's extremely shy and tends to back out at the last second cuz of anxiety. Who knows? I have to be cautious because mine tend to go the other way where they all but smother me. And it's often much too much, much too fast. Like that lady on farmtown. Who can expect to be (or act like) they're someone's closest bestest friend in under 2 hours?? By the 2nd day she was inviting me to Mexico and talking about coming to the states and seeing me. Uh, no thanks. You may be just a sweet middle aged woman who is lonely cuz her daughter is at college.....but I don't know that, nor does she know I'm nice lil ol' me and not some homicidal manic for Pete's sake! Sheesh 2 days does not a bff friendship make. I've met people I've "clicked" instantly with, but even those times it still takes time to know the person and develop the friendship. [/QUOTE]
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