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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 461956" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>((((HUGS)))) I know it's upsetting to find such a list, but having been there myself, I can tell you that her making such a list is a <strong>positive</strong> thing. The reality is that she probably feels so awful inside that she wants to be dead instead of living with that constant emotional pain. Making out a bucket list is actually a therapeutic process for herself to generate hope and strength to go on and stay alive long enough to DO the things on the list. As items on the list get checked off, others may pop into mind that she'll need to add. Also, the fact that her list includes extravagant things, means she's looking way into the future - she wants to stay around to do such things, but she's in so much pain, but if she thinks about these AWESOME things to do, that she won't get to do if she cuts her life short, she can manage to keep going.</p><p></p><p>My hearts aches for you both, but this list indicates that she's doing "OK" considering her circumstances.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 461956, member: 11965"] ((((HUGS)))) I know it's upsetting to find such a list, but having been there myself, I can tell you that her making such a list is a [B]positive[/B] thing. The reality is that she probably feels so awful inside that she wants to be dead instead of living with that constant emotional pain. Making out a bucket list is actually a therapeutic process for herself to generate hope and strength to go on and stay alive long enough to DO the things on the list. As items on the list get checked off, others may pop into mind that she'll need to add. Also, the fact that her list includes extravagant things, means she's looking way into the future - she wants to stay around to do such things, but she's in so much pain, but if she thinks about these AWESOME things to do, that she won't get to do if she cuts her life short, she can manage to keep going. My hearts aches for you both, but this list indicates that she's doing "OK" considering her circumstances. [/QUOTE]
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