Ok, so here I am stuck trying to keep my family together. Our foster son's behavior has just gone down the toilet! He is lying several times a day, stealing about once a week, and doesn't care who he hurts. The psychiatric mentioned in patient care, but being in the foster system means that the psychiatric can only make suggestions, the case manager makes the call. Add to that, the case manager is non-responsive and you have the greatest recipe for We are worried about out foster daughter, because we have to spend all our time policing her brothers activities...his behavior is hurting her (not physically) His behavior has both my husband and I in therapy too! I am going to get hypnotised tomorrow to help me find my happy place and learn how to force myself to release the extra anxiety. My husband has been going for anger management so that he doesn't end up abusing our son. I also think that my husband has given up, he isn't fighting for us or for our family any more. 4 1/2 months just isn't enough time to expect the changes that we need to see, and it is tearing me apart! I used to be able to know that my husband was there for me no matter what, and stood right beside me ready to fight, but he has changed so much because of all of this...and he isn't sure it is worth it. I am not really looking for anything other than a soft place to land right now. Thanks!!!