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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 450974" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>((((HUGS))))</p><p></p><p></p><p>Focus on this. You are still mourning the loss of your last dream, but you have a NEW dream on the horizon that you are moving towards. Focus on the new dream to carry you through.</p><p></p><p>I know it's not the 'right' way to get through difficult tasks, but it works for my kids as well as for me. Instead of taking breaks from the task, make the task the break. In other words change the timing. 5 minutes for the task, and then 15 minutes of relaxing time (or non-stressful task) Set a timer if you must. It might take longer to get things done, but it limits the amount of time that the unpleasant task has to put you into duress. As you feel stronger, you can increase the time.</p><p></p><p>Thomas Edison tried and failed inventing the light-bulb over 1000 times. When asked about this he said that it was NOT true. He had found 1000 ways in which NOT to invent a light-bulb.</p><p></p><p>You did not mess things up, they just got messed up. You are finding ways to get through, around and past that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 450974, member: 11965"] ((((HUGS)))) Focus on this. You are still mourning the loss of your last dream, but you have a NEW dream on the horizon that you are moving towards. Focus on the new dream to carry you through. I know it's not the 'right' way to get through difficult tasks, but it works for my kids as well as for me. Instead of taking breaks from the task, make the task the break. In other words change the timing. 5 minutes for the task, and then 15 minutes of relaxing time (or non-stressful task) Set a timer if you must. It might take longer to get things done, but it limits the amount of time that the unpleasant task has to put you into duress. As you feel stronger, you can increase the time. Thomas Edison tried and failed inventing the light-bulb over 1000 times. When asked about this he said that it was NOT true. He had found 1000 ways in which NOT to invent a light-bulb. You did not mess things up, they just got messed up. You are finding ways to get through, around and past that. [/QUOTE]
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