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Hi TIML- I haven't been around in a long time, but I wanted to offer support to you. I kicked my daughter out of my house when she was 19 and had an infant- I had to cut her off. It was incredibly difficult but I used the time to work on myself. What I wanted to tell you is this- my daughter is now working full time for our state legislators and is in law school. If someone had told me at that time that this is where she would be I would not have believed it. I do believe that drawing a line and not enabling her helped her decide to get on her feet on her own. I know it's heartbreaking and so, so stressful but learning to detach is the best thing for these struggling adult kiddos. Sending peace your way.