I think doing it with the counselor present is perfect! Just go in separate cars, so that if you need to leave you can. Potentially he could stay and process this with the counselor if need be.
I am so thinking of you! I went down this road just a couple of years ago myself! It is not fun, but you know when it is the right thing. Had I not made the final step in dissolving the union, we would still be together making each other miserable, and my son and I have enough problems without that!
We will be thinking of you!
