I need some help with this one...
difficult child#2 slept over M's house on Thursday night.(No school on Friday). I picked difficult child#2 up late Friday afternoon. On the way home, difficult child#2 is telling me that this girl from school is "filthy rich". I know that this girl(S) lives in the same neighborhood as M. So we get home and as I'm getting dinner ready, difficult child#2 is talking to me about how S thought his birthday was Oct.4 and she gave him some money. (his birthday is in January) I let him go on because I thought it was some kind of a joke. I then see him take a wad of money out of his wallet and start to count it. He had a $100.00 bill! And 3 20's and some singles. I asked him where on earth he got this amount of money. The girl gave it to him was his response. I took it from him and told him that he needed to give it back to her. He then got really upset with me. He couldn't see that this was WRONG! He kept repeating,"But she GAVE it to me. I didn't ask her for it". I called the girl who went on to tell me that M, not difficult child#2 always asks her for money and if she doesn't give it to him, then he gets mad. I tell her this is so wrong and that I need to talk to her parents. She tells me her mom is at work. She doesn't want her mom to know about it and she wants me to meet her at the park to give back the money. I tell her I am NOT going to do that. I don't know if she stole the moeny from her mom or her grandmother. I also called M's mom because difficult child#2 told me that M had $210.00 in his wallet that the girl gave him. I left a message on the machine. We were out all day yesterday but I didn't hear back. I called the girl this morning to speak with her mom. She said she wasn't home. I told the girl that I did not feel comfortable exchanging this amount of money with her. I also called M's house and left 2 messages. I haven't hear back.
What should I do? There have been other incidents with M and difficult child#2 and I didn't allow difficult child#2 to hang around M for a while this summer. I gave them another chance and here he are!
What would you guys do????
difficult child#2 slept over M's house on Thursday night.(No school on Friday). I picked difficult child#2 up late Friday afternoon. On the way home, difficult child#2 is telling me that this girl from school is "filthy rich". I know that this girl(S) lives in the same neighborhood as M. So we get home and as I'm getting dinner ready, difficult child#2 is talking to me about how S thought his birthday was Oct.4 and she gave him some money. (his birthday is in January) I let him go on because I thought it was some kind of a joke. I then see him take a wad of money out of his wallet and start to count it. He had a $100.00 bill! And 3 20's and some singles. I asked him where on earth he got this amount of money. The girl gave it to him was his response. I took it from him and told him that he needed to give it back to her. He then got really upset with me. He couldn't see that this was WRONG! He kept repeating,"But she GAVE it to me. I didn't ask her for it". I called the girl who went on to tell me that M, not difficult child#2 always asks her for money and if she doesn't give it to him, then he gets mad. I tell her this is so wrong and that I need to talk to her parents. She tells me her mom is at work. She doesn't want her mom to know about it and she wants me to meet her at the park to give back the money. I tell her I am NOT going to do that. I don't know if she stole the moeny from her mom or her grandmother. I also called M's mom because difficult child#2 told me that M had $210.00 in his wallet that the girl gave him. I left a message on the machine. We were out all day yesterday but I didn't hear back. I called the girl this morning to speak with her mom. She said she wasn't home. I told the girl that I did not feel comfortable exchanging this amount of money with her. I also called M's house and left 2 messages. I haven't hear back.
What should I do? There have been other incidents with M and difficult child#2 and I didn't allow difficult child#2 to hang around M for a while this summer. I gave them another chance and here he are!
What would you guys do????