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<blockquote data-quote="nlg319" data-source="post: 84797" data-attributes="member: 3637"><p>UPDATE:</p><p></p><p>I left 4 messages for M's mom....She never called me back. This morning I went to S's house. The address that difficult child#2 told me was incorrect. The house number was 6, and there were only 4 houses on the street. I stopped at one and the woman who lived there had never heard of S or the last name. So...I felt that I had no choice but to call the school. I spoke to the Dean, who told me she would notify S's mom and get back to me. Dean called me back and said that she spoke with the Principal, who said that he had called the police and I was advised to call them to give a statement and to hand the money over to the police who would then conduct an investigation. I spoke with a Sgt. and we made arrangements for me to bring difficult child#2 and the money to them after school. The school is also going to call the parents of M and S to let them know that they will be hearing from the police. I really didn't want it to get to this point but because S would not let me talk to her mom or grandmother, I felt like I had no choice. As far as M is involved and talking to his mom, I'm done with that. difficult child#2 is NOT permitted to hang out with him. I can't control anything that happens at school, but I will not allow them to be together outside of school.</p><p></p><p>The things that concerns me the most is that S said she gave difficult child#2 $100.00. But the total amount difficult child#2 had in his wallet was $178.00. When I asked difficult child#2 where he got the rest, he got flustered and said he had to think for a minute. My husband and I are looking at each other while difficult child#2 "thinks" and we are baffled that he can't come up with an answer. He says that actually M gave him $20, S gave him another $40, and he doesn't know where he got the rest. So, I'm thinking that they must have stole the money. Also when I spoke to the police, the Sgt. was saying that for all we know there could be drugs involved and that he has to let me know so I am not alarmed if it were even part of a child pornography thing. I was numb. I truly don't believe that difficult child#2 would be involved in anything like that, but of course, who knows! </p><p></p><p>I'll post later after I take difficult child#2 to the police station.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlg319, post: 84797, member: 3637"] UPDATE: I left 4 messages for M's mom....She never called me back. This morning I went to S's house. The address that difficult child#2 told me was incorrect. The house number was 6, and there were only 4 houses on the street. I stopped at one and the woman who lived there had never heard of S or the last name. So...I felt that I had no choice but to call the school. I spoke to the Dean, who told me she would notify S's mom and get back to me. Dean called me back and said that she spoke with the Principal, who said that he had called the police and I was advised to call them to give a statement and to hand the money over to the police who would then conduct an investigation. I spoke with a Sgt. and we made arrangements for me to bring difficult child#2 and the money to them after school. The school is also going to call the parents of M and S to let them know that they will be hearing from the police. I really didn't want it to get to this point but because S would not let me talk to her mom or grandmother, I felt like I had no choice. As far as M is involved and talking to his mom, I'm done with that. difficult child#2 is NOT permitted to hang out with him. I can't control anything that happens at school, but I will not allow them to be together outside of school. The things that concerns me the most is that S said she gave difficult child#2 $100.00. But the total amount difficult child#2 had in his wallet was $178.00. When I asked difficult child#2 where he got the rest, he got flustered and said he had to think for a minute. My husband and I are looking at each other while difficult child#2 "thinks" and we are baffled that he can't come up with an answer. He says that actually M gave him $20, S gave him another $40, and he doesn't know where he got the rest. So, I'm thinking that they must have stole the money. Also when I spoke to the police, the Sgt. was saying that for all we know there could be drugs involved and that he has to let me know so I am not alarmed if it were even part of a child pornography thing. I was numb. I truly don't believe that difficult child#2 would be involved in anything like that, but of course, who knows! I'll post later after I take difficult child#2 to the police station. [/QUOTE]
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