I am a mother of two young boys my oldest is 3 almost 4 and my other son is 2 1/2. I have been having multiple problems with my son oldest son since he was 18 months, with multiple ear infections he had to get two sets of tubes and then after that he started having loose bowel movements and he has those to this day I have changed his diet and done other things. He is very smart for his age I think however the littlest things he has a hard time doing he refuses to use silverware and still uses a tippy cup and potty training is a absolute nightmare. He is also very destructive with things in the home he has cut up screen windows and cut up curtains he has even broke things in my car (rearview mirror). He is also very defiant. He gets frustrated very easy with things he can not do, also he is very hyper. And has a sleeping problem he does not go to sleep until very late between 1:00am to 4:00am everynight. I have him in a special school for this behavior problem and he is on medication for sleep risperdal tablets. that do not work all the time. We tried melatonin and that only worked the first night and then did not work again, then we tried trazadone and that did not work either, then we tried ridilin and that did not work either. sorry for all the writing just very frustrated and concerened about my son and what is going on with him.