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<blockquote data-quote="goldenguru" data-source="post: 98971" data-attributes="member: 1545"><p>Isn't that what we all want? The trouble is (as you have wisely pointed out - the lengths that we will go to to achieve that end. Manipulation/control - some of the best tricks in my bag.) <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/smirk.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":smirk:" title="smirk :smirk:" data-shortname=":smirk:" /></p><p></p><p>For me - the epiphany moment was in realizing that I wanted my daughters happiness <strong>because my own happiness was dependent upon hers.</strong> That is when I realized that my life was enmeshed in her in a very unhealthy way.</p><p></p><p>Somehow - in a good hearted attempt to be a good mom - I lost sight of where I ended and she began. Sometimes I still struggle to see the blurred lines - but I'm working at it.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Believe me - I don't have it all figured out. I'm a work in progress just like every other valued member of this board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="goldenguru, post: 98971, member: 1545"] Isn't that what we all want? The trouble is (as you have wisely pointed out - the lengths that we will go to to achieve that end. Manipulation/control - some of the best tricks in my bag.) :smirk: For me - the epiphany moment was in realizing that I wanted my daughters happiness [B]because my own happiness was dependent upon hers.[/B] That is when I realized that my life was enmeshed in her in a very unhealthy way. Somehow - in a good hearted attempt to be a good mom - I lost sight of where I ended and she began. Sometimes I still struggle to see the blurred lines - but I'm working at it. Believe me - I don't have it all figured out. I'm a work in progress just like every other valued member of this board. [/QUOTE]
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