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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 99505" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Susan,</p><p></p><p>It probably can't be determined until well after your son has been clean awhile whether or not he has a mental illness. You certainly can't tell if he's all doped up on Xanax. </p><p></p><p>That is another one of those things that he, as a grown man, needs to take care of all by himself.</p><p></p><p>You do not need recovery. But you most certainly need to never miss an Alanon meeting.</p><p></p><p>Do you have a sponsor there? Is she on your speed dial?</p><p></p><p>You have some time here, unlike the time when he was home and you were a nervous wreck, where you can be <em>worry free</em> and not have to be concerned with will he call for a ride home, will he break into the house, will he ask for money for medicine. You have NONE of that to concern you now.</p><p></p><p>TRY to push the "what ifs" out of your mind, and enjoy the calm. You're missing the calm!! Don't let it slip away!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 99505, member: 3647"] Susan, It probably can't be determined until well after your son has been clean awhile whether or not he has a mental illness. You certainly can't tell if he's all doped up on Xanax. That is another one of those things that he, as a grown man, needs to take care of all by himself. You do not need recovery. But you most certainly need to never miss an Alanon meeting. Do you have a sponsor there? Is she on your speed dial? You have some time here, unlike the time when he was home and you were a nervous wreck, where you can be [i]worry free[/i] and not have to be concerned with will he call for a ride home, will he break into the house, will he ask for money for medicine. You have NONE of that to concern you now. TRY to push the "what ifs" out of your mind, and enjoy the calm. You're missing the calm!! Don't let it slip away! [/QUOTE]
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