I guess the losing weight resolution is something, but I'm thinking more of what is anyone going to promise he or she will do to enhance, heal or better his or her life, perhaps to the very core...even though our children may have problems. Or aren't we. I have delved deeply into spirituality and why we are here, which is different from organized religion. It has put any problems I have into a positive perspective. I have also largely willed my thoughts, deeds and, yes, interactions mostly toward positive thinking and with upbeat people. I am trying to use my intuition more than my busy, cluttered mind in making decisions so that I no longer stagnate over decisions as there is a ping pong ball in my head.There is too much stress on that and I have not seen any payoff. My intuition is my higher self and it hasnt let me down. So if I feel it in my gut, it is done. No more crazy bouncing back and forth in my head. I decluttered my mind. Also for myself I forgave anyone who I had been upset with and let go of the past and future. I made amends and have never been on better terms with my peeps. I really like this: M Yesterday is history, Tomorrow a mystery, The present a gift. For myself I try hard to no longer judge. I don't always succeed, but life is so good when I am not playing God to what others choose to do I do not expect everyone to take such big leaps. In my case this was coming a long time and my accident seemed too awaken a great spirituality that had been bubbling under the surface. Maybe that was the purpose of my accident for me. But there are baby steps to starting to be good to ourselves too. Is anybody committed to trying to be better to himself/herself, even in simple ways. I do not feel we can feel better about our disappointments unless we learn to love ourselves in spite of them. I do not know if anyone will respond but we always talk about our sadness. Perhaps a few want to share our gains and positives. If not, thanks for reading. And, yes, everyone can learn to be more peaceful and happy in our lives. I was hardcore negative for so long...but I kept searching for another way.