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<blockquote data-quote="ladybug47" data-source="post: 97337" data-attributes="member: 3932"><p>HELLO EVERYONE I REALLY WANTED SOME INPUT FROM PEOPLE THAT WOULD</p><p></p><p>UNDERSTAND. MY SON IS 14 AND A MESS. HE'S HAD A VERY HARD LIFE </p><p></p><p>ALREADY. HE SAW MYSELF ABUSED FROM HIS FATHER AT AN EARLY AGE.</p><p></p><p>I HAVE BEEN ALONE WITH HIM AND MY DAUGHTER 16 FOR 6 YEARS NOW.</p><p></p><p>ITS BEEN A BATTLE AT SCHOOL AND HOME EVER SINCE. HIS DAD IS IN</p><p></p><p>DENIAL OF MY SON'S diagnosis SO DOESNT MEDICATE HOM WITH VISITS OR WHEN</p><p></p><p>HE LIVES THERE. HE HAS BEEN BACK AND FORTH BETWEEN US FOR YEARS</p><p></p><p>AS WE DONT WANT THE STATE TO TAKE HIM FROM US FOR TRUANCY. THE</p><p></p><p>SCHOOLS ARE NO HELP AND WILL NOT GET IT. THEY THINK THIS BOY JUST</p><p></p><p>HAS BEHAVIORAL PROBLEMS. HE IS diagnosis BIPOLAR, Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), ADHD. I WANT TO</p><p></p><p>KEEP MY SON HERE BUT HE WILL NOT GO TO SCHOOL HERE. HE IS ABUSIVE</p><p></p><p>VERBALLY TO ME AND MY DAUGHTER AND HAS CAUSED DAMAGE TO MY HOUSE</p><p></p><p>IN HIS RAGES. I'VE TRIED SO HARD AND IT BREAKS MY HEART THAT HE</p><p></p><p>HAS TO BE WITH HIS DAD AND STEPMOM AS THEY ARE BOTH MENTALLY ILL</p><p></p><p>THEMSELVES. THEY REFUSE TO GIVE HIM medications THEN COMPLAIN TO ME OF</p><p></p><p>HIS BEHAVIOR. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE. I DONT KNOW HOW TO</p><p></p><p>HELP HIM UNDERSTAND SCHOOL IS A MUST. I WORK FULLTIME AND CANT</p><p></p><p>HOME SCHOOL HIM. WOULD YOU LEAVE HIM IN THIS PLACE OF ILLNESS</p><p></p><p>AND DENIAL OR BRING HIM HOME AND END UP IN COURT WITH HIM FOR</p><p></p><p>TRUANCY AND MAY LOSE HIM TO THE STATE. I'M SO SAD AND AFRAID FOR</p><p></p><p>HIM. PLEASE ANY INPUT WOULD HELP ME HAVE SOME OBJECTIVE INSIGHT.</p><p></p><p>THANK GOD THERE'S A PLACE LIKE THIS HERE FOR US THAT ARE LOST SAD</p><p></p><p>AND AT OUR WITS END BUT LOVE OUR CHILDREN AND ARE ONLY TRYING TO</p><p></p><p>HELP THEM DO THE RIGHT THING.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ladybug47, post: 97337, member: 3932"] HELLO EVERYONE I REALLY WANTED SOME INPUT FROM PEOPLE THAT WOULD UNDERSTAND. MY SON IS 14 AND A MESS. HE'S HAD A VERY HARD LIFE ALREADY. HE SAW MYSELF ABUSED FROM HIS FATHER AT AN EARLY AGE. I HAVE BEEN ALONE WITH HIM AND MY DAUGHTER 16 FOR 6 YEARS NOW. ITS BEEN A BATTLE AT SCHOOL AND HOME EVER SINCE. HIS DAD IS IN DENIAL OF MY SON'S diagnosis SO DOESNT MEDICATE HOM WITH VISITS OR WHEN HE LIVES THERE. HE HAS BEEN BACK AND FORTH BETWEEN US FOR YEARS AS WE DONT WANT THE STATE TO TAKE HIM FROM US FOR TRUANCY. THE SCHOOLS ARE NO HELP AND WILL NOT GET IT. THEY THINK THIS BOY JUST HAS BEHAVIORAL PROBLEMS. HE IS diagnosis BIPOLAR, Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), ADHD. I WANT TO KEEP MY SON HERE BUT HE WILL NOT GO TO SCHOOL HERE. HE IS ABUSIVE VERBALLY TO ME AND MY DAUGHTER AND HAS CAUSED DAMAGE TO MY HOUSE IN HIS RAGES. I'VE TRIED SO HARD AND IT BREAKS MY HEART THAT HE HAS TO BE WITH HIS DAD AND STEPMOM AS THEY ARE BOTH MENTALLY ILL THEMSELVES. THEY REFUSE TO GIVE HIM medications THEN COMPLAIN TO ME OF HIS BEHAVIOR. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE. I DONT KNOW HOW TO HELP HIM UNDERSTAND SCHOOL IS A MUST. I WORK FULLTIME AND CANT HOME SCHOOL HIM. WOULD YOU LEAVE HIM IN THIS PLACE OF ILLNESS AND DENIAL OR BRING HIM HOME AND END UP IN COURT WITH HIM FOR TRUANCY AND MAY LOSE HIM TO THE STATE. I'M SO SAD AND AFRAID FOR HIM. PLEASE ANY INPUT WOULD HELP ME HAVE SOME OBJECTIVE INSIGHT. THANK GOD THERE'S A PLACE LIKE THIS HERE FOR US THAT ARE LOST SAD AND AT OUR WITS END BUT LOVE OUR CHILDREN AND ARE ONLY TRYING TO HELP THEM DO THE RIGHT THING. [/QUOTE]
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