HELLO EVERYONE I REALLY WANTED SOME INPUT FROM PEOPLE THAT WOULD
UNDERSTAND. MY SON IS 14 AND A MESS. HE'S HAD A VERY HARD LIFE
ALREADY. HE SAW MYSELF ABUSED FROM HIS FATHER AT AN EARLY AGE.
I HAVE BEEN ALONE WITH HIM AND MY DAUGHTER 16 FOR 6 YEARS NOW.
ITS BEEN A BATTLE AT SCHOOL AND HOME EVER SINCE. HIS DAD IS IN
DENIAL OF MY SON'S diagnosis SO DOESNT MEDICATE HOM WITH VISITS OR WHEN
HE LIVES THERE. HE HAS BEEN BACK AND FORTH BETWEEN US FOR YEARS
AS WE DONT WANT THE STATE TO TAKE HIM FROM US FOR TRUANCY. THE
SCHOOLS ARE NO HELP AND WILL NOT GET IT. THEY THINK THIS BOY JUST
HAS BEHAVIORAL PROBLEMS. HE IS diagnosis BIPOLAR, Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), ADHD. I WANT TO
KEEP MY SON HERE BUT HE WILL NOT GO TO SCHOOL HERE. HE IS ABUSIVE
VERBALLY TO ME AND MY DAUGHTER AND HAS CAUSED DAMAGE TO MY HOUSE
IN HIS RAGES. I'VE TRIED SO HARD AND IT BREAKS MY HEART THAT HE
HAS TO BE WITH HIS DAD AND STEPMOM AS THEY ARE BOTH MENTALLY ILL
THEMSELVES. THEY REFUSE TO GIVE HIM medications THEN COMPLAIN TO ME OF
HIS BEHAVIOR. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE. I DONT KNOW HOW TO
HELP HIM UNDERSTAND SCHOOL IS A MUST. I WORK FULLTIME AND CANT
HOME SCHOOL HIM. WOULD YOU LEAVE HIM IN THIS PLACE OF ILLNESS
AND DENIAL OR BRING HIM HOME AND END UP IN COURT WITH HIM FOR
TRUANCY AND MAY LOSE HIM TO THE STATE. I'M SO SAD AND AFRAID FOR
HIM. PLEASE ANY INPUT WOULD HELP ME HAVE SOME OBJECTIVE INSIGHT.
THANK GOD THERE'S A PLACE LIKE THIS HERE FOR US THAT ARE LOST SAD
AND AT OUR WITS END BUT LOVE OUR CHILDREN AND ARE ONLY TRYING TO
HELP THEM DO THE RIGHT THING.