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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 102288" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Ditto what BBK said. Do you want your children to think that this is a 'normal' marriage/relationship? Do you want them to be raised to believe that it is perfectly normal for the responsibilities within a marriage/family to be so lopsided?</p><p></p><p>His behavior is causing you to feel bad about your life, your position, your future, your very existence.</p><p></p><p>He is an absent parent.</p><p></p><p>You're better off living along and being lonely than living with another person and feeling lonely. Because then you are free to fill your life with goodness and peace and happiness. I speak from experience. </p><p></p><p>You're already juggling everything on your own - he's just dead weight. Get rid of him. And if you're going to give ultimatums, be prepared to live with them. Each time you go back on your word, he takes another bite out of you.</p><p></p><p>You are a strong, capable person - someone to be treasured and loved - don't allow this man to steal your spirit and strength. </p><p></p><p>We never think we can do it 'on our own', but most of the time we already are!</p><p></p><p>Sending many many gentle hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 102288, member: 2211"] Ditto what BBK said. Do you want your children to think that this is a 'normal' marriage/relationship? Do you want them to be raised to believe that it is perfectly normal for the responsibilities within a marriage/family to be so lopsided? His behavior is causing you to feel bad about your life, your position, your future, your very existence. He is an absent parent. You're better off living along and being lonely than living with another person and feeling lonely. Because then you are free to fill your life with goodness and peace and happiness. I speak from experience. You're already juggling everything on your own - he's just dead weight. Get rid of him. And if you're going to give ultimatums, be prepared to live with them. Each time you go back on your word, he takes another bite out of you. You are a strong, capable person - someone to be treasured and loved - don't allow this man to steal your spirit and strength. We never think we can do it 'on our own', but most of the time we already are! Sending many many gentle hugs. [/QUOTE]
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