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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 622301" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Back, you reply as you think best. My difficult child is much older than yours, but i would be tempted to respond along the lines of:</p><p></p><p><em>I love you and always will. If I am standing in the way of your healing, I will step back to allow you to heal as you see fit.</em></p><p></p><p></p><p>Something like that. He sounds like a difficult child playing you, wanting an apology to put himself back in control. I look forward to the responses of others. Along with you, those responses will give me wisdom and insight. Above all, I think our difficult children (with conduct disorders) will say whatever is needed to regain the control. That loss of control makes them livid.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 622301, member: 17635"] Back, you reply as you think best. My difficult child is much older than yours, but i would be tempted to respond along the lines of: [I]I love you and always will. If I am standing in the way of your healing, I will step back to allow you to heal as you see fit.[/I] Something like that. He sounds like a difficult child playing you, wanting an apology to put himself back in control. I look forward to the responses of others. Along with you, those responses will give me wisdom and insight. Above all, I think our difficult children (with conduct disorders) will say whatever is needed to regain the control. That loss of control makes them livid. [/QUOTE]
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