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<blockquote data-quote="Calgon_Take_Me_Away" data-source="post: 183913" data-attributes="member: 5645"><p><span style="font-size: 15px">While not exactly on the same page, I have "caught" my difficult child in the shower with the shower part off but water coming out of the spout and his penis under the water stream and erect. He does like being hit "in the nuts" (as he puts it) and he likes "butt digging" (told/taught easy child 2 how to do it to him). He does grab himself from time to time when he's nervous. He makes innappropriate comments about butts or breasts. These are things we've talked about in therapy but have no answer to.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 15px">easy child 2 did what I would consider normal at 2 ~ he had a pair of underwear on that were loose in the front and his wee wee stuck through the hole when he sat down. One morning (while potty training) he told me, "look mom, my wee wee is hard". He quit playing with it and then said, "awe, it went down".</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 15px">We do know that it can be a soothing thing for some kids, but from the sounds of it, your difficult child isn't doing this to soothe himself. It's as if he's getting ignorantly educated regarding his "private" parts by those around him that are older. After saying this, I'm not saying it's you, but I know my kids gets an ear full on the school bus. I'd pay attention to television shows, older kids that are around, magazines (more the ads than articles), etc. Keep trying redirecting and inappropriate use "talks" ~ for some parents, telling the child they are only allowed to touch themselves in that manner when they are in their room out of everyone else's eyes.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 15px">Good Luck!</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Calgon_Take_Me_Away, post: 183913, member: 5645"] [SIZE=4]While not exactly on the same page, I have "caught" my difficult child in the shower with the shower part off but water coming out of the spout and his penis under the water stream and erect. He does like being hit "in the nuts" (as he puts it) and he likes "butt digging" (told/taught easy child 2 how to do it to him). He does grab himself from time to time when he's nervous. He makes innappropriate comments about butts or breasts. These are things we've talked about in therapy but have no answer to.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4][/SIZE] [SIZE=4]easy child 2 did what I would consider normal at 2 ~ he had a pair of underwear on that were loose in the front and his wee wee stuck through the hole when he sat down. One morning (while potty training) he told me, "look mom, my wee wee is hard". He quit playing with it and then said, "awe, it went down".[/SIZE] [SIZE=4][/SIZE] [SIZE=4]We do know that it can be a soothing thing for some kids, but from the sounds of it, your difficult child isn't doing this to soothe himself. It's as if he's getting ignorantly educated regarding his "private" parts by those around him that are older. After saying this, I'm not saying it's you, but I know my kids gets an ear full on the school bus. I'd pay attention to television shows, older kids that are around, magazines (more the ads than articles), etc. Keep trying redirecting and inappropriate use "talks" ~ for some parents, telling the child they are only allowed to touch themselves in that manner when they are in their room out of everyone else's eyes.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4][/SIZE] [SIZE=4]Good Luck![/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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