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When can a child cry for help and feel safe?
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 291461" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Unfortunately this doesn't always happen. Now it has been used as revenge against husband, and it's not on his record, even as unfounded, but if someone asks CPS it is "closed, unfounded" - just doesn't show on a background check now. BM's creep, since it was "indicated", it's closed BUT, he was arrested, then released. THAT will show. I just wish we had proof of some sort. It can also be really hard to prove someone guilty unless you have pictures or other physical proof (ugh) and the pics would then get you in trouble for child porn, possibly aiding and abetting.</p><p> </p><p>Also when we called CPS for Onyxx, when she wanted to tell them what BM had done, they talked to BM and then informed us there was nothing they could do because there was no proof.</p><p> </p><p>In a divorce situation unfortunately it is usually "believe the mother" and that mother is best for the kids. That's not always right. (I also have a friend who has full custody of his 10-y/o daughter after her BM was beaten by boyfriend & at hospital tested positive for meth. Sigh. It took him 9 years to get custody.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 291461, member: 6705"] Unfortunately this doesn't always happen. Now it has been used as revenge against husband, and it's not on his record, even as unfounded, but if someone asks CPS it is "closed, unfounded" - just doesn't show on a background check now. BM's creep, since it was "indicated", it's closed BUT, he was arrested, then released. THAT will show. I just wish we had proof of some sort. It can also be really hard to prove someone guilty unless you have pictures or other physical proof (ugh) and the pics would then get you in trouble for child porn, possibly aiding and abetting. Also when we called CPS for Onyxx, when she wanted to tell them what BM had done, they talked to BM and then informed us there was nothing they could do because there was no proof. In a divorce situation unfortunately it is usually "believe the mother" and that mother is best for the kids. That's not always right. (I also have a friend who has full custody of his 10-y/o daughter after her BM was beaten by boyfriend & at hospital tested positive for meth. Sigh. It took him 9 years to get custody.) [/QUOTE]
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