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<blockquote data-quote="mom_to_3" data-source="post: 149588" data-attributes="member: 30"><p>I'll contribute, but will be treading lightly and gently with all the respect in the world for you and yours, and with honesty. I have no recollection of your son's story and what brought him to this point.</p><p></p><p>I agree with this: </p><p></p><p><strong>These are his children. If he wants to see them, he needs to start doing the right thing. The one with rights here is his children. The right to expect and receive support from their father. He has the right to change the court's mind about what kind of a father he is and can be. I hope he will try to do so in a positive way.</strong></p><p></p><p>I agree with all of it EXCEPT for the "If he wants to see them. Not one child in this world made a choice to be here, that choice to enter this world was not theirs to make, it was made by their bio mother <strong>AND</strong> their bio father. The very least a child should be able to expect in this life is that their father and mother accept their responsibility for their children, that includes financially, physically, and emotionally. It matters not what the other parents does or is doing. A morally responsible parent just <strong>CANNOT</strong> walk away from their children to start a new life!</p><p></p><p>Jen, I know your mothers heart loves your son and wants to help and protect him. Help your son to be the man and father he should be.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes, we have to come to this site and hear things we don't really want to hear. Life is a learning process.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_to_3, post: 149588, member: 30"] I'll contribute, but will be treading lightly and gently with all the respect in the world for you and yours, and with honesty. I have no recollection of your son's story and what brought him to this point. I agree with this: [B]These are his children. If he wants to see them, he needs to start doing the right thing. The one with rights here is his children. The right to expect and receive support from their father. He has the right to change the court's mind about what kind of a father he is and can be. I hope he will try to do so in a positive way.[/B] I agree with all of it EXCEPT for the "If he wants to see them. Not one child in this world made a choice to be here, that choice to enter this world was not theirs to make, it was made by their bio mother [B]AND[/B] their bio father. The very least a child should be able to expect in this life is that their father and mother accept their responsibility for their children, that includes financially, physically, and emotionally. It matters not what the other parents does or is doing. A morally responsible parent just [B]CANNOT[/B] walk away from their children to start a new life! Jen, I know your mothers heart loves your son and wants to help and protect him. Help your son to be the man and father he should be. Sometimes, we have to come to this site and hear things we don't really want to hear. Life is a learning process. [/QUOTE]
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