There have been many posts about parents "moving" because of their kids. Many times the problems don't go away because the difficult child's just get attracted to new difficult child's. Basically the difficult child and the problem move with you.
difficult child really should be paying his fines. His PO might be able to get through to him.
I guess I'm with the "if M/L wants him....why not let her try and work with him". What have you got to lose? Bottom line is if he is successful....that's the goal (it really doesn't matter who he lives with or where...just that he is successful)
