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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 559134" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Susie</p><p></p><p>Ask her the reason behind her concern, if she's not forthcoming, then drop it. This is a no win situation for you. We both know this. This could be a set up plotted by bro, with Mom in or out of the loop of that plot. Know what I mean?? </p><p></p><p>My younger bro isn't to the degree as yours. But he's a difficult child with issues, both childhood and issues exacerbated by 2 really major difficult child (severely mentally disturbed) wives. He's fine with family. BUT with the women in his life.........omg. To live with him is to live in hades. I've just never said anything to anyone. I've seen it on and off over the years. But I don't live back home so it just really never affected me. When he moved in with mom.........now that was another story. It took almost a year for her to realize her son was an abusive a##, and even then she made excuses for the behavior. (although she did finally force him to move out) She was stunned when I told her it was not new behavior by a long shot. She wanted details, but I wouldn't give them. She didn't need them. And I wasn't putting myself there into that spot. No sir. </p><p></p><p>I just cringe for every new female he sweeps off her feet.......who later down the road comes crashing down to reality which is ugly. With the childhood friend he hooked up with via my fb acct, I was thrilled it fizzled after the let's meet for a cup of coffee. </p><p></p><p>Your mom may, since bro doesn't have you to bug to death anymore with his inappropriate talk, be enduring some of what you did and it has her concerned...........or bro could be up to something. Regardless, with your mom's hx of not truly believing you, it's a no win deal. </p><p></p><p>If this is a bit jumbled.........I've not finished my first cup of coffee yet on very little sleep. lol</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 559134, member: 84"] Susie Ask her the reason behind her concern, if she's not forthcoming, then drop it. This is a no win situation for you. We both know this. This could be a set up plotted by bro, with Mom in or out of the loop of that plot. Know what I mean?? My younger bro isn't to the degree as yours. But he's a difficult child with issues, both childhood and issues exacerbated by 2 really major difficult child (severely mentally disturbed) wives. He's fine with family. BUT with the women in his life.........omg. To live with him is to live in hades. I've just never said anything to anyone. I've seen it on and off over the years. But I don't live back home so it just really never affected me. When he moved in with mom.........now that was another story. It took almost a year for her to realize her son was an abusive a##, and even then she made excuses for the behavior. (although she did finally force him to move out) She was stunned when I told her it was not new behavior by a long shot. She wanted details, but I wouldn't give them. She didn't need them. And I wasn't putting myself there into that spot. No sir. I just cringe for every new female he sweeps off her feet.......who later down the road comes crashing down to reality which is ugly. With the childhood friend he hooked up with via my fb acct, I was thrilled it fizzled after the let's meet for a cup of coffee. Your mom may, since bro doesn't have you to bug to death anymore with his inappropriate talk, be enduring some of what you did and it has her concerned...........or bro could be up to something. Regardless, with your mom's hx of not truly believing you, it's a no win deal. If this is a bit jumbled.........I've not finished my first cup of coffee yet on very little sleep. lol Hugs [/QUOTE]
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