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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 509932" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I can definitely see that there are stages. I am definitely getting better with each of my kids. I am pretty much there with number 2. I mean I love him, I think I worry about him in an appropriate manner. </p><p></p><p>I am very attached to Cory. The baby. I feel a whole lot of guilt with him. We are a lot alike or I like to think we are and sometimes I want to believe that I feel the same things he is feeling and then I find out that he is so not even on the same page as me and it almost feels like a betrayal to me. I have to remind myself quite often that we are not the same person with the same worldly experiences. </p><p></p><p>I have become much better at putting up boundaries with him and setting limits. I do worry though. I think I worry more because of his physical issues more than his psychiatric stuff now though. He has become much easier to have a relationship with him now that he doesnt live with us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 509932, member: 1514"] I can definitely see that there are stages. I am definitely getting better with each of my kids. I am pretty much there with number 2. I mean I love him, I think I worry about him in an appropriate manner. I am very attached to Cory. The baby. I feel a whole lot of guilt with him. We are a lot alike or I like to think we are and sometimes I want to believe that I feel the same things he is feeling and then I find out that he is so not even on the same page as me and it almost feels like a betrayal to me. I have to remind myself quite often that we are not the same person with the same worldly experiences. I have become much better at putting up boundaries with him and setting limits. I do worry though. I think I worry more because of his physical issues more than his psychiatric stuff now though. He has become much easier to have a relationship with him now that he doesnt live with us. [/QUOTE]
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