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When Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) Grows Up
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 446645"><p>I have a sign in my house that reads "We are our choices."</p><p></p><p>I do believe this applies 99.9999999999% of the time. Yes, sometimes we accidentally make a poor choice and then we have a choice to make a correction. We also have the choice to accept personal responsibility in life. We have a choice to accept what life has to offer us, change what we can, and to learn how to compensate for those difficulties that are troubling or not. This includes learning to compensate/soothe ourselves appropriately emotionally (or not). Ultimately, we have a choice about what we think about and how we are going to respond.</p><p></p><p>I think the sister didn't want her brother to hear the truth because she personally has issues with facing reality, responsibility and self control and she might be enabling her brother in the same manner.</p><p></p><p>Yes, both of them had and have choices.</p><p></p><p>I hope some day they come to realize that they have the choice to chose a healthier way of thinking, living, acting and reacting. (hugs)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 446645"] I have a sign in my house that reads "We are our choices." I do believe this applies 99.9999999999% of the time. Yes, sometimes we accidentally make a poor choice and then we have a choice to make a correction. We also have the choice to accept personal responsibility in life. We have a choice to accept what life has to offer us, change what we can, and to learn how to compensate for those difficulties that are troubling or not. This includes learning to compensate/soothe ourselves appropriately emotionally (or not). Ultimately, we have a choice about what we think about and how we are going to respond. I think the sister didn't want her brother to hear the truth because she personally has issues with facing reality, responsibility and self control and she might be enabling her brother in the same manner. Yes, both of them had and have choices. I hope some day they come to realize that they have the choice to chose a healthier way of thinking, living, acting and reacting. (hugs) [/QUOTE]
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