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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 448723" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>"How would I know the other person forgot if I didn't bring it up?" I've asked my Aspie that before.</p><p></p><p>I didn't' have this issue much with my Aspie - he is very self aware. I do have this problem CONSTANTLY with DD1. She's had episodes where she truly did NOT remember what went on. Others, her 'normal' tantrums, she very much remembers, but does not want to discuss it. She does not want to 'relive' what went on and feel bad again. On rare occasions she does give me small bits and pieces. This helps me and her therapist help her and I am CONSTANTLY reminding her of that. I laugh when asked if she's in therapy because while she is and has been in the past, she doesn't participate well because it requires her to 'go there' which she won't do.</p><p></p><p>Just keep pushing and have the therapist keep pushing. Hopefully some small pieces will emerge for you as well. If nothing else, he is learning that discussing these things is EXPECTED of him. Maybe someday he will be able to do so.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 448723, member: 11965"] "How would I know the other person forgot if I didn't bring it up?" I've asked my Aspie that before. I didn't' have this issue much with my Aspie - he is very self aware. I do have this problem CONSTANTLY with DD1. She's had episodes where she truly did NOT remember what went on. Others, her 'normal' tantrums, she very much remembers, but does not want to discuss it. She does not want to 'relive' what went on and feel bad again. On rare occasions she does give me small bits and pieces. This helps me and her therapist help her and I am CONSTANTLY reminding her of that. I laugh when asked if she's in therapy because while she is and has been in the past, she doesn't participate well because it requires her to 'go there' which she won't do. Just keep pushing and have the therapist keep pushing. Hopefully some small pieces will emerge for you as well. If nothing else, he is learning that discussing these things is EXPECTED of him. Maybe someday he will be able to do so. [/QUOTE]
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