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when to push, when to leave it alone?
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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 392495" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Your difficult child is at a very precarious age ~ add into that her issues & I would guess that she's struggling to make a commitment or is fearful of this tryout coming up. I'm wondering if your difficult child isn't, as her diagnosis suggests, simply overwhelmed & is self protecting. Please take this as it's given. Trying to give you a different perspective.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Saying that I never pushed either of the tweedles until/unless they were stable for at least 6 months counting. At that point I pushed little by little. For kt I've it's only been over the last 6 months that I've been able to push her past her comfort zone (in all areas of her life) & she's 16. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">It's a work in progress as it is with all of our children. I'm no suggesting you don't encourage or even nudge your difficult child. Just want to remind you that many of these diagnosis's carry an emotional delay making it more difficult just making it through the day.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 392495, member: 393"] [SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Your difficult child is at a very precarious age ~ add into that her issues & I would guess that she's struggling to make a commitment or is fearful of this tryout coming up. I'm wondering if your difficult child isn't, as her diagnosis suggests, simply overwhelmed & is self protecting. Please take this as it's given. Trying to give you a different perspective. Saying that I never pushed either of the tweedles until/unless they were stable for at least 6 months counting. At that point I pushed little by little. For kt I've it's only been over the last 6 months that I've been able to push her past her comfort zone (in all areas of her life) & she's 16. It's a work in progress as it is with all of our children. I'm no suggesting you don't encourage or even nudge your difficult child. Just want to remind you that many of these diagnosis's carry an emotional delay making it more difficult just making it through the day. [/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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