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<blockquote data-quote="Baggy Bags" data-source="post: 729423" data-attributes="member: 22819"><p>I am asking these same questions. You are right to be angry. It is natural to feel this way. You have been betrayed by the person who you have given your entire heart and life to. Why would you ever put yourself in that vulnerable position again?</p><p></p><p>I don't have the answers. Maybe we will never be able to love that way again. But maybe life can still be enjoyable once we get past this anger.</p><p>The anger is real. Almost tangible. It takes over everything. I'm right there with you. But we must work at getting past it, because it is poison.</p><p></p><p>Take your time. Feel the feelings. Let them flow. </p><p></p><p>My son is only 15 and a few days ago, after hearing him lie about me, I lost control and yelled F*** You!!! to my baby boy.</p><p>It was a release of all my repressed rage. It was like letting out the monster that has grown inside me with everything my son has done to me, that I keep locked up.</p><p>I know it was wrong, but it felt soooo good.</p><p></p><p>When you get a chance, let it all out. Let her hear your rage in all its force. And then let it go, even if only a little. And then a little more next week....</p><p>We'll get there. We will be different people from who we were before, and it will take time, but we'll get past this anger.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/notalone.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":notalone:" title="notalone :notalone:" data-shortname=":notalone:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Baggy Bags, post: 729423, member: 22819"] I am asking these same questions. You are right to be angry. It is natural to feel this way. You have been betrayed by the person who you have given your entire heart and life to. Why would you ever put yourself in that vulnerable position again? I don't have the answers. Maybe we will never be able to love that way again. But maybe life can still be enjoyable once we get past this anger. The anger is real. Almost tangible. It takes over everything. I'm right there with you. But we must work at getting past it, because it is poison. Take your time. Feel the feelings. Let them flow. My son is only 15 and a few days ago, after hearing him lie about me, I lost control and yelled F*** You!!! to my baby boy. It was a release of all my repressed rage. It was like letting out the monster that has grown inside me with everything my son has done to me, that I keep locked up. I know it was wrong, but it felt soooo good. When you get a chance, let it all out. Let her hear your rage in all its force. And then let it go, even if only a little. And then a little more next week.... We'll get there. We will be different people from who we were before, and it will take time, but we'll get past this anger. :notalone: [/QUOTE]
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