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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 314356" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Nichole told me this evening she is not going to take the BC shot anymore. In fact, she's not going to use any bc anymore. 1. the shot makes it really difficult for her to control her emotions. 2. she runs a high risk of having a serious psychotic reaction to both the shots and the pills. (my mother and I both did........and believe me, I've worried sick about Nichole using either) 3. so far the other methods haven't worked out very well.</p><p> </p><p>But the biggest reason, is she wants another child. And she doesn't want Aubrey to be 5 yrs older than a younger sibling.</p><p> </p><p>I didn't go all meddling Mom on her. Mostly because I can understand her view. I didn't want my kids far apart in age either. Nor did easy child.......Darrin and Brandon only have that age difference because Fate had other plans.</p><p> </p><p>I asked her how boyfriend felt about it. She said he told her it was a "team decision". And she said that until she has a ring on her finger, it's her decision as she'll be the one raising the child. If he doesn't want one, he doesn't have to have sex with her. Not like she's forcing him to.</p><p> </p><p>Okkkkkk. Not sure I quite go along with the logic on that. But I guess if he seriously doesn't want another child right now he could stay celebate. lol</p><p> </p><p>But I did tell her one thing. That I hoped she wouldn't do it until she has a permanent job.</p><p> </p><p>Honestly, I can't judge her on this one. When I got preggers with Travis.......as a family we were barely eating, keeping our utilities on, paying the rent........ Of course I didn't try to get preggers. But then I never had to, it just always surprised me. lol</p><p> </p><p>Is it evil that I hope he goes celebate on her.......and it just so happens to split them up? LOL<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 314356, member: 84"] Nichole told me this evening she is not going to take the BC shot anymore. In fact, she's not going to use any bc anymore. 1. the shot makes it really difficult for her to control her emotions. 2. she runs a high risk of having a serious psychotic reaction to both the shots and the pills. (my mother and I both did........and believe me, I've worried sick about Nichole using either) 3. so far the other methods haven't worked out very well. But the biggest reason, is she wants another child. And she doesn't want Aubrey to be 5 yrs older than a younger sibling. I didn't go all meddling Mom on her. Mostly because I can understand her view. I didn't want my kids far apart in age either. Nor did easy child.......Darrin and Brandon only have that age difference because Fate had other plans. I asked her how boyfriend felt about it. She said he told her it was a "team decision". And she said that until she has a ring on her finger, it's her decision as she'll be the one raising the child. If he doesn't want one, he doesn't have to have sex with her. Not like she's forcing him to. Okkkkkk. Not sure I quite go along with the logic on that. But I guess if he seriously doesn't want another child right now he could stay celebate. lol But I did tell her one thing. That I hoped she wouldn't do it until she has a permanent job. Honestly, I can't judge her on this one. When I got preggers with Travis.......as a family we were barely eating, keeping our utilities on, paying the rent........ Of course I didn't try to get preggers. But then I never had to, it just always surprised me. lol Is it evil that I hope he goes celebate on her.......and it just so happens to split them up? LOL:raspberry-tounge: [/QUOTE]
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