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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 314502" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>Did all this talk about having a second child come up suddenly or has she talked about it for a while now? What I keep thinking is ... you said before that she was becoming fed up and disgusted with boyfriend, that he was sponging off of her financially and that he was critical and saying that she didn't make enough money and needed to work more hours - while he contributed nothing? And didn't you also say that his parents have already told him that he could not come back home to live again after he moved out?</p><p> </p><p>This is just my theory but it sounds like Nichole may have been (rightly) questioning why she needed him there anyway since he's just a liability and she might have been on the verge of throwing him out. And he had nowhere to go if he couldn't sponge off of Nichole and he might have to actually pull his own weight and be a responsible adult if she threw him out, so maybe he turned on the charm and sweet-talked her into all this? That's a very possible scenario. And if she's the one supporting all of them, how would they live if she takes time off to have another baby? Does she even have any leave time she could use at this job to be off long enough to have a baby ... or insurance that would pay for the birth of another child? I didn't think about things like that when I was her age either but that's all got to be taken into account. I sure hope that she changes her mind!</p><p> </p><p>And I agree with upallnight - she does deserve much, much better than this!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 314502, member: 1883"] Did all this talk about having a second child come up suddenly or has she talked about it for a while now? What I keep thinking is ... you said before that she was becoming fed up and disgusted with boyfriend, that he was sponging off of her financially and that he was critical and saying that she didn't make enough money and needed to work more hours - while he contributed nothing? And didn't you also say that his parents have already told him that he could not come back home to live again after he moved out? This is just my theory but it sounds like Nichole may have been (rightly) questioning why she needed him there anyway since he's just a liability and she might have been on the verge of throwing him out. And he had nowhere to go if he couldn't sponge off of Nichole and he might have to actually pull his own weight and be a responsible adult if she threw him out, so maybe he turned on the charm and sweet-talked her into all this? That's a very possible scenario. And if she's the one supporting all of them, how would they live if she takes time off to have another baby? Does she even have any leave time she could use at this job to be off long enough to have a baby ... or insurance that would pay for the birth of another child? I didn't think about things like that when I was her age either but that's all got to be taken into account. I sure hope that she changes her mind! And I agree with upallnight - she does deserve much, much better than this! [/QUOTE]
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