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When you no longer care...good or unhealthy?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 667506" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I have posted on this (past half hour or so) on the self-forgiveness thread. </p><p></p><p>I see it as you no longer respond Serenity, to the language of shaming. You have risen above her attempts to humiliate, to abase you. You no longer hear it. It is not important to you.</p><p></p><p>I do not hear you saying that she is not important to you, Serenity. I believe she is. But what she says, what she does, how she acts out, you have moved beyond it. It is no longer anything that can have power over you.</p><p></p><p>You have memories of her. Memories of your love for her. You have empathy and compassion for her hurt. But you realize there is nothing at all you can do to change her, to change events. Except to leave the circle. </p><p></p><p>She is speaking a different language, Serenity, a language to which you no longer respond to. You have chosen not to. You are speaking and understanding a different language now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 667506, member: 18958"] I have posted on this (past half hour or so) on the self-forgiveness thread. I see it as you no longer respond Serenity, to the language of shaming. You have risen above her attempts to humiliate, to abase you. You no longer hear it. It is not important to you. I do not hear you saying that she is not important to you, Serenity. I believe she is. But what she says, what she does, how she acts out, you have moved beyond it. It is no longer anything that can have power over you. You have memories of her. Memories of your love for her. You have empathy and compassion for her hurt. But you realize there is nothing at all you can do to change her, to change events. Except to leave the circle. She is speaking a different language, Serenity, a language to which you no longer respond to. You have chosen not to. You are speaking and understanding a different language now. [/QUOTE]
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