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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 216947" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>AOG- I definitely understand the feeling you have when you see a pokice car nearby. been there done that myself several times!!</p><p></p><p>I'm really sorry that your difficult child 1 has put you in this position. One of my big concerns for you is that after learning how some things work with juveniles who get in trouble and how courts deal with families, if difficult child 1 gets busted and chances are he will at the rate he's going and they discover that you knew and didn't report any of this, then it can be used against you if difficult child 2 ever gets in trouble or if social services is ever involved, for any reason. They might not let difficult child 2 come back home. There are many bad things this can lead to if you don't do something- it won't be viewed as "look what that kid did to this family", I am afraid. I think many will view it as "why did she let this go on".</p><p></p><p>Another option, in addition to what Susie suggests (which I second her suggestions) is to get that apartment that you talked about before and move you and difficult child 2 into it. Let the chips fall where they may with difficult child 1 and the rest of your family.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 216947, member: 3699"] AOG- I definitely understand the feeling you have when you see a pokice car nearby. been there done that myself several times!! I'm really sorry that your difficult child 1 has put you in this position. One of my big concerns for you is that after learning how some things work with juveniles who get in trouble and how courts deal with families, if difficult child 1 gets busted and chances are he will at the rate he's going and they discover that you knew and didn't report any of this, then it can be used against you if difficult child 2 ever gets in trouble or if social services is ever involved, for any reason. They might not let difficult child 2 come back home. There are many bad things this can lead to if you don't do something- it won't be viewed as "look what that kid did to this family", I am afraid. I think many will view it as "why did she let this go on". Another option, in addition to what Susie suggests (which I second her suggestions) is to get that apartment that you talked about before and move you and difficult child 2 into it. Let the chips fall where they may with difficult child 1 and the rest of your family. [/QUOTE]
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