I had a feeling it was drugs, too - her face looked really pale and I told her so. She looked a lot better on Tuesday when I saw her. Of course the excuses came - no make up on, etc. Claims she has not used in two weeks. I wasn't sure whether the flipping out was due to her being tired from using or her feeling sad and bitter about not living at the house anymore. Though while she was yelling, she said this is why she can't live with us (Hmm, I thought it was because you didn't want to go to rehab).
I am going to get her sneakers and may even get her a gift card to Goodwill (they have them now!!) so she can get some shorts and shirts. Can't say I will have her over for a meal anytime soon. husband doesn't want her at thouse house at all right now...and if he finds out I am helping her in any way, he will be more than ticked.
She is currently staying at a house in a good neighborhood. It is pretty far from any stores or anything like that, though. But, the owner told them (there is my difficult child and at least one other male young adult - not sure if there are others. I know the home owner has his ill mother living there and handicapped brother) that they could have the basement of the house. So she told me that they have been finishing the remodeling that was started down there to build their place. Not sure why the owner would do that, but it is what it is.
Then again, she told me that one of her friends got a record deal from Circus and he offered her to go to Europe with him. She told me yesterday when I dropped her off that she was going to go to Europe today. I fell for the lie about going to California, not about to fall for this one....ugh.
It is just that she is so quick to deny she did anything to cause the situation and she is SO good at making you think it was actually your fault. I started to wonder if we did do something wrong to cause her to freak out. I mean, it was only a pillow. I should have just let her have it.... 
