Nancy, thank you, I needed to read that. You are perfectly right, of course. I feel my heart aching, my eyes are always close to tears that could turn in to a crying fit ever so easily. I am not taking care of ME anymore. I am spending all of my time worrying about her and she is not even worrying about herself. Why do I still feel responsible for her? I try to remind myself that she is an adult and makes her own choices but my gosh, I feel like there is something I should be doing... 
