PG I know why you are feeling like you are. I was so close to tears all the time they would flow in the grocery store if I saw one of her former friends. I had a pit in my stomach all the time. I worried myself sick. I wanted to fix her. Of course you can't stop worrying, it's harder when they are put there and you don't know what's going on, but remember that she won't change until you do, and even if you do change she may not.
"We are living the way we choose to live, and they are living the way they choose to live. We didn't make them live this way, they chose it and they are the only ones that can choose to do it differently."
One of our board members said that to me and I put it on my fridge. It's helped me often.
Hugs,
Nancy
