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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 689574" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You both should probably stop being dramatic and needy in front of both your kids and suck up criticism or don't associate with critical people, even familym. You deserve to be treated well by all in your life, family included.</p><p></p><p>At the same time you are asking a lot of your son to support you while at the same.time incurring harmful debt on a car for a 25 year old who can probably, with fiance, afford a cheap car. Why don't they pay for the car? Doesn't fiance work? There is too much over dependence on mother and grown kids going on and they will resent it. They may even resent if you help them although they will take it. I am guessing your debt is a lot because of these grown kids.</p><p></p><p>I think you will probably not find peace or happiness until you change your life choices. If you can't wait for the therapy, see a preacher or rabbi...somebody used to talking to people about these issues. They charge nothing.</p><p></p><p>I am 62 and my youngest is just turning20</p><p>I am older too. My daughter is in college and drives an old car we picked up for 3k. Her boyfriend sometimes switches cars with her. They can do it and you don't have to give them all you have. If you need to file bankruptcy, in my opinion do it and your kids will solve their own problems. You can not live forever. You deserve peaceful golden years, not this insecurity. by the way, 62 or not, I just got hired. There is hope once we decide to change our lives that make us unhappy. Many of us here has to make big changes in our thinking. You're not alone.</p><p></p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 689574, member: 1550"] You both should probably stop being dramatic and needy in front of both your kids and suck up criticism or don't associate with critical people, even familym. You deserve to be treated well by all in your life, family included. At the same time you are asking a lot of your son to support you while at the same.time incurring harmful debt on a car for a 25 year old who can probably, with fiance, afford a cheap car. Why don't they pay for the car? Doesn't fiance work? There is too much over dependence on mother and grown kids going on and they will resent it. They may even resent if you help them although they will take it. I am guessing your debt is a lot because of these grown kids. I think you will probably not find peace or happiness until you change your life choices. If you can't wait for the therapy, see a preacher or rabbi...somebody used to talking to people about these issues. They charge nothing. I am 62 and my youngest is just turning20 I am older too. My daughter is in college and drives an old car we picked up for 3k. Her boyfriend sometimes switches cars with her. They can do it and you don't have to give them all you have. If you need to file bankruptcy, in my opinion do it and your kids will solve their own problems. You can not live forever. You deserve peaceful golden years, not this insecurity. by the way, 62 or not, I just got hired. There is hope once we decide to change our lives that make us unhappy. Many of us here has to make big changes in our thinking. You're not alone. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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