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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 107832" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Hey Angel, </p><p></p><p></p><p>You know - I have no answer for you as to WHY. If I had that answer I would either be very rich or largely popular (maybe both) lol </p><p></p><p>Our kids have free will. They have to make their own choices. I think what makes it hard for us is that we feel that they aren't quite the same as other kids or don't "get it" as well maybe it takes a normal kid 1 time and ours - sadly -100. But they have to get it on their own terms. </p><p></p><p>DO NOT LET ANYONE BULLY YOU INTO HAVING HIM BACK INTO YOUR HOME. He is violent and now on drugs - not something you want to expose your other children or self to. KEEP STANDING UP TO THEM AND SAY NO. You're a great Mother - telling someone that you are trying to protect your children from a person that isn't even welcome in a Hostel with other kids his own age - doesn't mean you don't love your son. It only means you are looking out for the welfare of the other 3. You'll have to find a way to deal with the eldest on your own terms. </p><p></p><p>Please don't let this ruin Christmas for you - It will be what it will be regardless of HOW badly you hurt, cry or get depressed. </p><p></p><p>Post here often if you need to just get it out of your system. YOU ARE A GOOD MUM - and like Fran said - seeds are planted, he's just not a mature kid yet. Maybe a stint in prison would jerk a big enough knot in his behind to do that? </p><p></p><p>It has helped my son in the fact that he doesn't want to go back and now knows what he can or can't do to be put back in jail. </p><p></p><p>Many hugs - I know you're hurting</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 107832, member: 4964"] Hey Angel, You know - I have no answer for you as to WHY. If I had that answer I would either be very rich or largely popular (maybe both) lol Our kids have free will. They have to make their own choices. I think what makes it hard for us is that we feel that they aren't quite the same as other kids or don't "get it" as well maybe it takes a normal kid 1 time and ours - sadly -100. But they have to get it on their own terms. DO NOT LET ANYONE BULLY YOU INTO HAVING HIM BACK INTO YOUR HOME. He is violent and now on drugs - not something you want to expose your other children or self to. KEEP STANDING UP TO THEM AND SAY NO. You're a great Mother - telling someone that you are trying to protect your children from a person that isn't even welcome in a Hostel with other kids his own age - doesn't mean you don't love your son. It only means you are looking out for the welfare of the other 3. You'll have to find a way to deal with the eldest on your own terms. Please don't let this ruin Christmas for you - It will be what it will be regardless of HOW badly you hurt, cry or get depressed. Post here often if you need to just get it out of your system. YOU ARE A GOOD MUM - and like Fran said - seeds are planted, he's just not a mature kid yet. Maybe a stint in prison would jerk a big enough knot in his behind to do that? It has helped my son in the fact that he doesn't want to go back and now knows what he can or can't do to be put back in jail. Many hugs - I know you're hurting Star [/QUOTE]
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