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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 83050" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>Thanks. I know I deserve to be happy.</p><p></p><p>Jog: I know what you mean about feeling lighter and I have to admit, I don't really miss him per say, just having someone to do things with. When I think about how I'm lonely and would I be feeling better if I was spending time with him, I almost cringe at the thought of spending time with him. When I see him, I don't think, OMG, how am I getting along without him, I miss him. </p><p></p><p>I know my moods are also influenced by his. I haven't really seen him much this week and I was doing pretty good. I spoke to him last night and he said he wasn't able to work yesterday because he had a bad day and I didn't buy into it. I didn't ask why, I just told him I would leave enough dog food on the table for him to take to VT with him, as he's taking the dog with him for the weekend. This morning I saw him in the driveway as I was leaving for work and his eyes were red, he looked beat and was very short with me, like he was mad at me for something????? This of course influenced my mood right away and I started feeling sorry for him. Why do I do that. I'm the one who was cheated on because he wasn't happy with the life we had, so why do I allow myself to feel sorry for him?? I guess that is what 30 years of being with someone does for you. I'm glad he's going to VT for the weekend, because now I know I won't run into him at all for the weekend. I feel free to go where I want. </p><p></p><p>Good thing I have counseling tomorrow huh???</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 83050, member: 2442"] Thanks. I know I deserve to be happy. Jog: I know what you mean about feeling lighter and I have to admit, I don't really miss him per say, just having someone to do things with. When I think about how I'm lonely and would I be feeling better if I was spending time with him, I almost cringe at the thought of spending time with him. When I see him, I don't think, OMG, how am I getting along without him, I miss him. I know my moods are also influenced by his. I haven't really seen him much this week and I was doing pretty good. I spoke to him last night and he said he wasn't able to work yesterday because he had a bad day and I didn't buy into it. I didn't ask why, I just told him I would leave enough dog food on the table for him to take to VT with him, as he's taking the dog with him for the weekend. This morning I saw him in the driveway as I was leaving for work and his eyes were red, he looked beat and was very short with me, like he was mad at me for something????? This of course influenced my mood right away and I started feeling sorry for him. Why do I do that. I'm the one who was cheated on because he wasn't happy with the life we had, so why do I allow myself to feel sorry for him?? I guess that is what 30 years of being with someone does for you. I'm glad he's going to VT for the weekend, because now I know I won't run into him at all for the weekend. I feel free to go where I want. Good thing I have counseling tomorrow huh??? [/QUOTE]
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