Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Who has come out of long term relationships
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 83055" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>I was married 9 years, to my soulmate.</p><p></p><p>I left him 4 1/2 years ago.</p><p></p><p>Reasons: He refused to look for employment. We were struggling financially and he was having too much fun being Mr. Mom. Except he was shirking his mom duties too. He ran around all hours.</p><p></p><p>I've been in therapy 3 years and am wrapping it up here. Same for Tink.</p><p></p><p>He is on his 2nd live in girlfriend since we split. Make that the 3rd! I forgot he moved in with an X for awhile. It helped me see the pattern, what a user he was. It helped me to get over him. He moved from the 2nd to the 3rd's house in one day.</p><p></p><p>I am not seeing anyone. I am not anti man, but for the first time in my life, I am comfortable NOT being with a man.</p><p></p><p>It was hard at first, to see him jump from girl to girl, when we had just split. It broke my heart. It was at this time that I learned how differently men and women deal with things. I was taking this as a slap in the face, as though it made a mockery of our years together. Once I understood that he was doing this FOR him, not TO me, I was able to get past it. I grieved the loss of my marriage to him. </p><p></p><p>Will I ever find love again? Maybe. I have a lot on my plate now. When the time is right. Star is right, we all deserve to be happy. I am happy with me now, and I do not need someone else to fill my time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 83055, member: 3647"] I was married 9 years, to my soulmate. I left him 4 1/2 years ago. Reasons: He refused to look for employment. We were struggling financially and he was having too much fun being Mr. Mom. Except he was shirking his mom duties too. He ran around all hours. I've been in therapy 3 years and am wrapping it up here. Same for Tink. He is on his 2nd live in girlfriend since we split. Make that the 3rd! I forgot he moved in with an X for awhile. It helped me see the pattern, what a user he was. It helped me to get over him. He moved from the 2nd to the 3rd's house in one day. I am not seeing anyone. I am not anti man, but for the first time in my life, I am comfortable NOT being with a man. It was hard at first, to see him jump from girl to girl, when we had just split. It broke my heart. It was at this time that I learned how differently men and women deal with things. I was taking this as a slap in the face, as though it made a mockery of our years together. Once I understood that he was doing this FOR him, not TO me, I was able to get past it. I grieved the loss of my marriage to him. Will I ever find love again? Maybe. I have a lot on my plate now. When the time is right. Star is right, we all deserve to be happy. I am happy with me now, and I do not need someone else to fill my time. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Who has come out of long term relationships
Top