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<blockquote data-quote="mrscatinthehat" data-source="post: 83412" data-attributes="member: 2063"><p>Obviously my situation is different as is everyones. I am on my third marriage. I went from my first to my second very quickly and though they were two different men they weren't. I was young and had my eyes closed. When my second husband walked out (to someone he met on the internet) I dropped my proverbial basket. In the same time frame I had lost my dad, my oldest brother, my favorite grandmother and job I loved. Needless to say I went into overload. I know you have been through a lot. It took me a lot longer to be able to reach out and get help going through my mess. Thus I am still dealing with it many years later.</p><p></p><p>I am working in therapy on a couple of books. One that doesn't apply here. The other two do.</p><p></p><p>The first one is The Grief Recovery Handbook by John W James & Russell Friedman. I am still working it but thus far I like the path that it follows. It has a slightly different look at grief. </p><p></p><p>The second that I just started for the group I belong to I don't know a lot about yet but so far seems positive is What Happy Women Know by Dan Baker and Cathy Greenberg.</p><p></p><p>Just a couple of thoughts for you to try if you are up for it. I know sometimes just looking at things from a different way (which these books help you to do) can help.</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mrscatinthehat, post: 83412, member: 2063"] Obviously my situation is different as is everyones. I am on my third marriage. I went from my first to my second very quickly and though they were two different men they weren't. I was young and had my eyes closed. When my second husband walked out (to someone he met on the internet) I dropped my proverbial basket. In the same time frame I had lost my dad, my oldest brother, my favorite grandmother and job I loved. Needless to say I went into overload. I know you have been through a lot. It took me a lot longer to be able to reach out and get help going through my mess. Thus I am still dealing with it many years later. I am working in therapy on a couple of books. One that doesn't apply here. The other two do. The first one is The Grief Recovery Handbook by John W James & Russell Friedman. I am still working it but thus far I like the path that it follows. It has a slightly different look at grief. The second that I just started for the group I belong to I don't know a lot about yet but so far seems positive is What Happy Women Know by Dan Baker and Cathy Greenberg. Just a couple of thoughts for you to try if you are up for it. I know sometimes just looking at things from a different way (which these books help you to do) can help. Beth [/QUOTE]
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